Shopping Tip

theorie shampoo

Hello! Sorry I’ve been MIA lately. I’m happy to say it’s because we are expecting another little one! I’m due in the early spring. I’ve been really tired and working to get Buddy’s big boy room ready so we can move this new one into the nursery.  The blog is going to be a bit sparse in the coming months but I will try to drop in occasionally with a small post.

In addition to this update I want to give a little tip that most people are probably aware of, but I’ve never realized. Discount stores are a great place to look for earth friendly and organic products! I usually see food containers in the dishware, but I’ve never thought to check the hygiene aisle for lotions, shampoos, make-up, etc. I stopped by Marshall’s Home Goods the other day and thought I would look through that section since I’m in need of a new shampoo. Before this baby, I started slowly switching to more organic personal hygiene products since it can be pricey. I already use Dr. Bronner’s soap and a sulfate free shampoo that was running low. I found, what I think, is a big score. A 28.6 fl oz bottle of Theorie shampoo for $15! This is going to last a long time. Just look at the label to see how earth friendly it is.

theorie shampoo

The price tag said it is normally $30 and what I found online seemed to confirm that. I just started using it and it seems to work just as well as traditional shampoo. I might just have to keep buying it, even at full price.  Have you found any good deals in unexpected places? Any recommendations for a safe deodorant?

Pinterest Favorites

We’re off to the beach for a week of family fun! I thought I’d put up some links to my favorite blog posts and sites that I’ve pinned on Pinterest. Enjoy!

We’re major animal lovers in our house. We have 2 rescue cats, 2 adopted dogs, and a toddler to prove that! Just kidding. No, really though, Buddy makes more of a mess than the 6 week old kitten. It’s kind of a zoo at our house. Anyway, this cruelty free brands list is extremely helpful if this is something important to you. Our home isn’t completely cruelty free (I don’t think), but if I’m debating between a brand that is and one that isn’t, I’m definitely going with the brand that is.

I love all things home and real estate related, and New World Home is a producer of cute, sustainable housing. We would love to have a green home one day.

When I was little my mom used to grow an avocado tree from the seed of one we had eaten. It was such much fun to watch as a child!

I’m not a sewer, but I will definitely be paying a friend to make these cute burp cloths for the next bambino.

I love these wooden pull along toys by FriendlyToys. They are just too cute.

Here is some basic info on torticollis. I had never heard of it until Buddy was diagnosed. You can read about the beginning of our journey here.

Of course a healthy mom and baby is the most important aspect of any birth, but a woman’s wishes for her birth are important too. This is an excellent post on this topic.

I’m going to shamelessly plug myself here because I LOVE this lemonade. It’s so easy and so yummy in the summer.

Using an old hose as a doormat is such a cute and thrifty idea. I’m hoping to make one for our back patio.

I love this necklace made from a recycled glass bottle. I hope the hubby sees this post.

That’s it. Some of my favorites from around the web.

*I was not paid or perked to highlight any of these posts/websites. I just enjoy them!

Our Experience with Torticollis-Part 3

At 2 years old and 7 months post surgery

We took a couple of weeks to make the decision about surgery. We were so confused.  His tilt was much better since he started walking, but he was still slouching and tilting when he was laying down.  There was some obvious facial asymmetry that most likely wouldn’t be corrected without surgery. Even with all that I had a hard time justifying it since it wasn’t absolutely necessary. We had started just seeing the PT and OT every other week since there wasn’t much else we could do therapy wise. We finally decided to go ahead with surgery. The fact that he was still slouching and tilting while laying down was telling me there was still a problem. I was also concerned with him being picked on as he got older if  his face continued to get worse. We called to schedule the surgery. We would need another consult since it had been about 3 months since the initial visit. That was kind of a pain since it was a two hour drive, but we just dealt with it. We scheduled the surgery for August 2012 when he would be 18 months old.

The next couple of months were nerve wracking, just waiting for the date to come around. I kept going back and forth about whether or not to do it. I just felt bad about doing something that wasn’t an absolute. I wouldn’t have doubted myself if the tilt was still really bad, but it wasn’t anymore. I just couldn’t shake the feeling there was still something wrong though. We were also afraid we might regret not doing it. We knew if we went ahead, and there was still a problem in the future, that we had done everything we possibly could.

The morning of surgery came around. We left very early to make his 10am surgery time. The check-in process was really fast fortunately. He was taken back and had his blood pressure checked and all that good stuff. They took us to a small room with a hospital bed, chairs, toys, and a basketball hoop. They let him pick out a toy from a toy chest that actually had some really nice stuff. The anesthesiologist came and spoke with us. She let us know that I could take him back. He would be under for about 30 minutes and bring him back to us immediately after so we could be with him as he woke up. The surgeon came in and just went over the procedure. The only real risk is that there is a nerve that runs into the shoulder. If that was damaged he might not be able to lift his shoulder up, but he said they rarely even see that nerve during the surgery. We waited another 15 minutes or so, then they came to get us. I carried him back to the operating room and laid him on the table.  I held his hand as they put him under and told him I loved him and I would be waiting when he woke up. One of the men in there told me at some point that he couldn’t hear me anymore. I really wanted to punch him and tell him a few not nice things, but I just said, “I don’t care.” I wanted my voice to be the last one he heard.  Maybe that was an over reaction, but I felt the comment was really insensitive. Obviously a mother of a small child is going to be freaking out over her baby having surgery.

A very nice nurse took me back to the room and tried to have a little conversation with me, I’m sure to try to keep my mind off what was happening. She said he was a very observant boy and seemed to know what was going on. I agreed and told her he’d been like that since he was really small. She commented on how he didn’t seem scared, and he really didn’t. Once I got back to the room I let the tears go and my husband tried to reassure me and tell me that it wouldn’t be long. They came and got us after 15 minutes and took us to the recovery room. We waited another 15 minutes and he finally was brought back to us. It had only been about 30 minutes, as promised. Buddy had started to wake up but was pretty out of it. They got me some pillows to put in the chair with me so I could hold him. We turned on a tv so he could watch Nick Jr., but he had no idea what was going on. He was very groggy and really fussy, but didn’t really have the energy to cry. We waited in there for about an hour and a half. The nurse went over some care instructions and we were able to go home. He was wearing a soft neck brace that he would have to wear for 2 weeks all day, then 2 more weeks at bedtime. We were to follow up in 2 months.

The two hour drive was uneventful and he slept most of the way. He was fairly awake when we got home. My parents were there to help out since we had been up since 5 am. It was a good thing since he was pretty much back to himself by 5pm. He was still a little loopy, but was more than happy to play and see his Nene and Papa. I was so relieved that he didn’t seem to care and didn’t seem to mind the neck brace. I did give him the prescribed Tylenol for a few days. By the next day you couldn’t tell anything had happened. He was completely back to himself.

At 2 years old and 7 months post surgery

At 2 years old and 7 months post surgery

Over the next few weeks we noticed some small changes. He was using his upper body A LOT more. Before surgery he loved to dance, but would mostly just bounce and move his legs. After surgery he was swinging his arms and using his whole body. He was no longer tilting when he laid down. He did slouch for a while, but as his upper body strength improved that went away also. We went back to PT and OT once a week for a couple of months. He was dismissed from PT at this point since he had greatly improved. We had a 2 year check up for OT and he met all the goals set and exceeded some of them.  The little bit of tilt that was left was gone after a couple of months. Even though his tilt was only minor by the time we did surgery I’m so, so glad we did it. I feel the small changes that happened because of surgery made a big difference overall. I think had we not done it we would have had some bigger issues down the road and been back in PT and OT in a few years. He is still not very strong in his torso, but it isn’t too bad. He does have some weakness in his arms and hands, but the OT said that will probably remedy itself with some exercises at home.  His facial asymmetry already seems to be improving, but I think it will take another few years to fully resolve, if it ever does. He had a small one inch scar from surgery which is now almost completely gone.  He does occasionally tilt when he is tired or sick, but it goes away very quickly.

Dealing with torticollis and the decisions that came with it was not something I want to go through again, but I’m still very grateful that it was the only health problem we’ve had with him. I have scoliosis and wonder if that might have contributed to him having it, but I guess we will see what happens when we have another. Even if we go through it again I at least have some exercises to begin immediately and know that it is very manageable.

Our Experience with Torticollis-Part 2

Buddy at 9 months old and after 5 months of pt.

Soon after the second scan we began seeing an occupational therapist. She was trained in craniosacral therapy, which involves lightly manipulating the bones and tissue in the skull, spine, and pelvis. From what I can tell this is usually done by a chiropractor. There isn’t really any evidence that I could find supporting this treatment, but other parents seemed to think it helped. I didn’t think it would hurt. She also worked with him on improving torso strength. He was extremely weak throughout his trunk. She determined he was slightly behind in some motor skills, but nothing major. He really started disliking PT and OT around this time and would frequently cry through the whole session. He was about 9 months old. I think it was a combination of being touched so much, being close to nap time, and teething. They started taking him back without us because he calmed down after a few minutes if we weren’t there to distract him. The OT gave us a compression vest to borrow after a couple of months.It’s normally used for children with autism and sensory processing disorders. Nick does not have any sensory issues, but she felt it would help him stay aligned and get a feeling of what it was like to sit up straight. The torticollis coupled with a weak torso cause him to slouch to the left when he was sitting. We tried it for a few weeks. He looked much better while wearing it, but went right back to the tilt and slouch when it was off.  He didn’t mind wearing it though, and actually seemed to enjoy it.

Buddy at  9 months and after 5 months of PT

Buddy at 9 months and after 5 months of PT

We switched to a new PT soon after starting OT. The first PT was going to be at the hospital exclusively. I also thought it might be good to get a fresh perspective after more than six months of PT with little progress. The new PT was a great change. While I liked the first, the new one seemed a bit more aggressive and hands on. We discussed a torticollis collar for Buddy but we all felt it wouldn’t work for him. The PT hadn’t personally seen much of a benefit from it and we didn’t think the collar would suit his personality After a couple of months with the new PT he suggested a neck x-ray just to make sure there wasn’t anything wrong with the bone structure. We still weren’t seeing much progress at this point and just wanted to make sure. He also wanted us to start considering surgery if the x-ray came back clear. He was a year old at this point. I had already been thinking about it knowing that he wasn’t making much progress. It was still scary to think about though and know that it was a real possibility now.

Our pediatrician ordered the neck x-ray for us and it took a couple days to get the results. The x-ray came back and showed that there was subluxation of the C2 and C3. I was dumb and googled. This was a very bad idea and turned up some very scary results. This information really scared me and resulted in a panic attack that night. After I accepted that there could be a real problem I was able to go into “fix it mode”.  We were referred to a pediatric neurosurgeon. It took a month to see him. Unfortunately, there is only one pediatric neurosurgeon in our area which resulted in an hour and a half wait in the lobby. He was very pleasant and told us that he doubted it was anything serious and was just a result of Buddy’s head being tilted for so long. He said we could do a CT scan to double check and left it up to us. We asked him about surgery. He had very negative feelings about it and thought it was just a bunch of plastic surgeons out to get money. We would probably need a CT scan though if it was something we wanted to do. We left figuring surgery was off the table. We set up a CT scan for peace of mind. If he truly had a problem with these vertebrae it could be very serious.

In the couple of months that it took to see the doctor and have a CT, Buddy began walking. He was 14 months. This significantly improved the tilt. It was still obvious when he was sitting but not too bad when standing and walking. The PT still wanted us to think about surgery since it was still pretty persistent. We debated back and forth. He was doing so much better, but not “normal” yet. What harm could a consult do? We figured we would go to have a consult. It was a two hour drive, but we wanted to do it for peace of mind. The appointment was only a few minutes. The doctor felt his neck and thought he was a good candidate (of course, easy money). He would cut the tight muscles and release them. He explained that the muscles were like rope and can only be pulled so far. The procedure would only take about 30 minutes and he would wear a soft neck brace for two weeks. Easy. He would need to continue PT for a while, but should have a lot of improvement. Buddy had some pictures take as he had developed some facial asymmetry at this point. It was a relatively easy appointment.

The day of the scan was pretty eventful. He was not allowed to eat or drink all day. We tried the scan first without sedation but it was a no go. He then had to have an IV put in for the sedation which was quite unpleasant for everyone and upsetting for me. I can’t remember what they gave him but he was out immediately. We were allowed to be with him for the CT. It only took a few minutes and he woke up 10 minutes later. Once he drank something we were allowed to go. They told us he would probably be woozy and wouldn’t want to eat. We headed to the hospital food court where he proceeded to eat a lot. He also wanted to run around. Nothing slows that boy down. We left for the appointment at the neurosurgeon’s office where we got the good news that everything was ok. The subluxation was due to the prolonged tilting and would resolve once he could hold his head straight.Now we just had to decide if we wanted to go forward with surgery. We continued PT for a couple months and didn’t see much progress after the initial improvement once he began walking. The PT let us know he thought he had gone about as far as he could go with PT and OT alone, and we should decide whether or not to do surgery. We really needed to make a decision.

Resources:
http://www.cancer.org/treatment/treatmentsandsideeffects/complementaryandalternativemedicine/manualhealingandphysicaltouch/craniosacral-therapy

Our Experience with Torticollis-Part 1

Buddy at 3 months with obvious tilt to the left. This is how it looked all the time.

When our son was born I thought, like any mother, that he was the most beautiful, perfect baby in the world. I was right. He had all 10 finger and 10 toes, was alert, and rarely cried. He slept wonderfully from the beginning and nursed easily after the 4th day(the first four days are an entirely different story).  After a few weeks I began to notice that he always kept his head tilted to the left. My father pointed it out a few times, but I brushed it off as just a baby without developed neck muscles and head control. We also noticed he used his left hand a lot, but I thought he would just be a leftie. It was so cute! My husband took him to his 3 month check-up and the pediatrician let us know it was not normal and gave us some stretches to do at home. A couple weeks passed and he didn’t seem better so I got on the internet and googled “baby head tilting”. Torticollis pages filled the screen. I clicked on the first one that seemed credible and my eyes were now wide open. Of course he had torticollis! I called the pediatrician the next day and they worked us in. She looked at him and said she was referring us to physical therapy and she was glad we didn’t wait until his next check-up. We received a phone call within a few days from PT and were scheduled for the next week.

Buddy at 3 months with obvious tilt to the left. This is how it looked all the time.

Buddy at 3 months with obvious tilt to the left. This is how it looked all the time.

His first PT visit went well. There were some questions about my pregnancy and delivery. I didn’t have any complications with either. He was not breech and I didn’t have a long delivery which are some possible causes of tort. The only explanation we could come up with was that he was cramped into my small frame, even though he was an average 7.7 lbs. She felt his neck to see if she could feel the tightened muscles. On a side note, Buddy had muscular torticollis. Vision, hearing, and neurological problems are some other potential causes. We felt certain, as did the pt, that he had muscular.  She checked his rotation, which was good, and took some measurements of his skull to check for plagiocephaly. Fortunately his skull was still symmetrical. Many babies with stubborn torticollis will go on to develop plagiocephaly and potentially need a helmet. She pointed out that his cute left-handedness was simply because he couldn’t see his right side due to the tilt and was not as aware of it as his left. It’s not normal, and not good, for a baby to favor a side so early.  She did then some stretches and showed us some exercises and activities to use at home. We left feeling very positive that we would have this resolved in no time.  Although we were very upset that he had a problem we still felt very grateful that it was something so minor and easily treated.We set up a weekly schedule for PT.

The exercises at home were easy to do and we tried to do them whenever we had something else to do, like change a diaper. This was an easy way to remember to do them. We saw great improvement over the next couple of weeks. Two weeks later the PT said that if he continued to do this well we would probably only need to come a few more months and could soon go to visits every other week. We were so excited! Our bubble was burst the next week when he had obviously regressed. We continued going to our weekly visits and about a month later the PT pointed out that his skull was now misshapen. I had noticed but didn’t think it was too bad, and I think I was a little bit in denial. She recommended having a scan done to check the measurements and see if he needed a helmet. I was really upset at this news. We scheduled a scan and checked with our insurance to see what, and if, it would be covered. Fortunately it would be if it was needed. I scoured the internet for information about helmets. There is a lot of conflicting information out there. Some people, and doctors, think most cases of positional plagiocephaly will resolve on their own with time. The parents who chose to go ahead with it seemed to have no regrets and the biggest complaint was cost and stinkiness. I decided if he needed it we would go forward. We went to have his scan done and had some more questions about pregnancy and labor. He had a little cap put on his head to push his hair down and was placed in a small three side machine that scanned his head. It was very quick and he didn’t mind at all. The orthotist looked it over right then while we were in the room. He said that his skull measurements were outside of the range to be considered normal, but not yet to the point of recommending a helmet. We were so relieved. He gave us some helpful tips to keep him off his back and how to minimize pressure to his flat spot when he was on his back. He wanted us to come back in one month for a rescan. Fortunately Buddy had just started rolling over to sleep the week before. This might scare some parents but I knew there were no blankets, stuffed animals, or a crib bumper that might increase his chance of SIDS. Frankly, I was happy that he would have at least 8 hours of time off his back. We continued our weekly PT visits and followed-up one month later. His scan showed that he was now in the normal range and was even more symmetrical than most! We were so, so relieved.

Resources

http://kidshealth.org/parent/medical/bones/torticollis.html

http://kidshealth.org/parent/growth/sleep/positional_plagiocephaly.html?tracking=P_RelatedArticle

How to Teach our Kids to Go Green?

tree

Don’t you think it’s time to teach your tot’s to go green?  Because of people littering everyday, factories polluting, and not enough recycling, it seems like our planet is going one direction-and that’s down.

Here we list some ways to help teach you children to be environmentally friendly.

1. Replace the forest: Our forest are being taken down one at a time. When there are fewer trees there is less oxygen, and more pollution. Teach your children the importance of keeping and planting trees.

2. Teach your children to recycle when possible instead of littering. Explain how littering pollutes our land and water.

3. Buy eco-friendly toys: they are safer and most of the time last longer-and your children can hand them down to their children.

4. Reduce time using electricity: Teach your children the importance of spending time outdoors, explain to them why they shouldn’t leave the lights on, or leave their electronics on when not being used. Not only will your electric bill go down, but there will also be a reduction in energy used.

5. Use the library: Teach your children to use the library or download books when possible. Not only will you save money, but you will protect our forest and cut down on waste in our landfills.

 

DOES YOUR CHILD NEED HELP WITH BALANCE AND MOTOR SKILLS?

car

Are you looking for a way to help your child with balance and motor skills? http://earthfriendlytots.com/PushAlong-Hybrid-Car could be your answer. The Push Along Hybrid Car aids young children in balance and motor skills. Shaped from a single piece of earth friendly Rubberwood, with smoothly finished edges this whimisical toy is a delight to hold and play with. Rubber wheels will protect your floor.  Measures 5x4x1

WE NEED YOUR HELP SAVING THE PLANET!

dump truck

Need help hauling a big load while helping save the planet? The Green toys dump truck is ready to get working.  Made from 100% recycled plastic milk container this really is the most energy efficient vehicle on the entire planet. The super cool eco-design has a workable dumper and no metal axles. Your little boy is going to love this dump truck. http://earthfriendlytots.com/Dump-Truck.

TRAVELING?

Bead Maze

Is your family planning on traveling during the holiday season? Children will delight in our bead maze while developing visual skills, eye-hand coordination, and color and shape recognition, made of rubberwood, and earthfriendly hardwood, these colorful toys provide hours of  play! Handcrafted and hand-painted using child-safe paints. http://earthfriendlytots.com/BeadMaze-Frog

WILL YOU LOVE ME?

Dr. Seuss

Will you love me, cuddle me and chew on me?  DR. SEUSS HORTON BLANKEE is going to make the perfect Chrismas gift for that special baby or little one in your life. DR SEUSS  is safe to chew on and loves to be cuddled. http://earthfriendlytots.com/Dr-Seuss-Horton-Blankee